Dealing with Rejection
August 28th, 2008“When you are reviled and persecuted and lied about because you are my followers - wonderful!
Be happy about it! Be very glad! For a tremendous award awaits you up in heaven.” Matthew 5: 11 and 12
Do you remember a time when you were rejected? Everyone is rejected sometime or other. If someone who isn’t special to you rejects you, you could care less. But if someone you really like or look up to rejects you, someone you really trusted to be your friend, then you hurt.
In the Psalms David writes about someone who had gone to the temple with him to worship God with him and then this person rejected him. In fact this person didn’t only reject him, but also betrayed him. If someone whom you trusted in, someone you worshipped God with and fellowshipped with, someone you told your heart to, betrayed you that is most hurtful. Because it has to do with your spiritual life you think maybe God rejects you too. But God doesn’t reject you when you fail or when someone turns on you. When we sin God is saddened but receives us with open arms as we repent. The Bible says God will never leave us or forsake us if we are His.
After Jesus was tempted in the wilderness He went to several cities and taught in their synagogue, their church schools. The people were happy to hear Him and marveled at Jesus’ knowledge of God and the Scriptures. They honored Him as God’s Son.
Then He came to His home town, Nazareth. The people there, His neighbors and the people who had seen Him grow up, crowded into the synagogue to hear what He had to say. They had heard about the miracles Jesus had done in the other towns and cities.
Jesus stood up and read the Scriptures:
“The Spirit of the LORD is upon Me,
Because He has anointed Me
To preach the gospel to the poor;
He has sent Me to heal the brokenhearted,
To proclaim liberty to the captives
And recovery of sight to the blind,
To set at liberty those who are oppressed;
To proclaim the acceptable year of the LORD.”
When He finished reading and sat down, He said that today the Scripture was fulfilled in their presence. The people were surprised. They knew that these words were written about the coming Messiah. They thought, is Jesus saying that He is the Messiah? Is He saying that He is the Son of God?
Some people believed Him and were blessed. But most of the people ridiculed Him. They knew that Jesus was Joseph and Mary’s son who had grown up next door to them. They didn’t think He was anybody special. They refused to believe that He was the Messiah come to help them. In fact, they got so angry at Him that they started a riot. The leaders of the church took Jesus outside. A lot of people joined them. The mob took Jesus to the top of the high hill on which Nazareth stood. They wanted to throw him down on the sharp rocks in the canyon below. But Jesus walked through the crowd and went away. He went to live in Capernaum, a city by the Sea of Galilee.
Jesus was often rejected. Later he was even betrayed by Judas, one of his chosen disciples. Jesus said that if we are His disciples we too will be rejected and maybe even betrayed. He also said that we should rejoice when we suffer because we belong to Him. In heaven we will be rewarded for suffering because of Jesus.
If anyone knows how it hurts to be rejected and betrayed, it is Jesus. He knows how you feel when you are rejected. He knows how to come close to you and strengthen and comfort you. He is that friend that sticks closer to you than a brother.
Going Deeper for Parents:
Sometimes we reject people because they are different from us and we don’t understand them or else we don’t want others to associate us with someone we might think is a loser. Sometimes we reject even friends because we envy them. Maybe we think they make us look inferior. We tend to associate with people who think like we do or who build us up.
The people of Nazareth lost a great deal that day. They drove Jesus away because of their foolish pride. To them Jesus was just the poor carpenter’s son not the Son of God. They were used to being the leaders. They were in charge. They wanted to be the superior ones. They were not going to bow to the poor boy next door. They lost out. They never received Jesus’ gift of salvation.
The church leaders of Nazareth also were upset because Jesus included the Gentiles in His ministry. The Israelites were God’s chosen people and they were not about to share their spiritual heritage with the heathen. They felt they were superior to the people of Capernaum.
Sometimes we also reject people because we think they are so superior to us because of their wealth or their power or their wisdom. They treat us as equals but we feel inferior so we reject them. In this case we also are the losers. God put them in our lives to be a blessing to us. We can learn much from them.
We can learn much from Jesus who as God is far superior to us in everyway but humbled Himself to come to earth so we can know Him. He says if we are persecuted on His account, “Great is your award.” Knowing Him may lead to rejection and persecution but it also leads to the greatest of awards, salvation.


